Our Presence is the Best Present

It seems as if we just got through giving thanks and birthday wishes before it was time already to deck the halls!  Calendar spaces are filled with important events like parties and caroling and traditional happenings like the living nativity.  And as I added each new activity, I felt my heart beat increase and I found myself anxious about all that was to come, to do, to make, to see. So, I decided to take a minimalist approach this year.  I gave myself permission to back out if it didn't feel right.  I sent the kids up in the rafters to find a nativity set, ornaments and stockings; everything else stays hidden.  We made a simple advent wreath, grabbed our two favorite devotionals and I had the kids wrap the 25 books that we unwrap each night, not caring what their wrapping job looked like.

And it still looks like Christmas, but by taking a simplified approach. . .it actually feels like Christmas now. Nights of lazy read alouds with hot chocolate, discussions taking place around the table long after dinner is served. Sometimes when life feels overwhelming with seemingly good things that distract you from the real meaning of Christmas, then do what YOU need to do to THRIVE not simply survive.

Our kids are watching us, they hear the tone of our voice, our complaints, our distractions. . . and the reality is our PRESENCE is the best PRESENT we can give them.   This season, find yourself seeking HIM in the peace of your home surrounded by those who mean the most to you.  Be present.  Be filled with His presence and be astounded by the beauty that awaits you.