Happy nineteenth birthday! What an amazing young man you have become! I teared up when I was talking to your mom about how much I appreciated your help when your dad was in the hospital. You seemed so grown, so confident, so strong. . .all three traits I needed because there was a lot to do while he was away. The biggest blessing was you sitting through surgery with me, and texting me before we would leave early in the mornings. Whatever was needed, you made yourself available to help.
I know we haven't always been the best blended family we could be. . .but once we figured things out and really worked together--the results are astounding. You are here--cherished son, brother, and friend. You've become such a hard worker and in my opinion, a carbon copy of the best parts of both your dads. You, young man are quite amazing!
Looking through your mom's scrapbook of the first two years of your life today--I was overcome by such pride for who you have turned out to be despite the mistakes all of us have made along the way. You were born to teen parents who did their best together to parent you and to provide for you--while the marriage may not have lasted--their love for you was always enough. It's a beautiful day to be able to gather together to celebrate you and the life you are living and finding your way through.
I love the way you and your dad are friends. I love listening to you guys talk about manly, work, guy stuff. I love the way you tease me about putting Coco in the crate. I love that we can tease you about a gift from Tilly's. I love that Leah likes to come over and we have our own little Christmas traditions. I love the way you wrestle and play with Jonathan but you will still hold Janessa and hug Anjalene. Those kids look up to you. When you aren't here, they ask for you. When you are here, they can't get enough of you. . .and I hope you always keep in mind they look up to you. My wish for you is that one day you will be as close to them as I am to my little brother. You lead and they follow willingly because we are a family.
I love that we've all become this one big happy brood over the course of a long time. We all genuinely like each other and can all agree that the young man you have become fills us with happiness and pride! You are a man now who grew up with two sets of parents. Somehow, someway, you embraced this village that we make up and you've taken the best from all of us and become who God has intended you to be.
Follow your dreams, wherever they may lead. Love God. Seek Him in your decisions and don't be afraid to take risks. He is right there beside you every step of the way. We love you. We wish you happiness, joy and love in this upcoming year. I am so proud of who you are becoming.
Happy Birthday!
May Blessings Abound!
I love You,
Mom #2
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