Showing posts with label Girls. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Girls. Show all posts

Saturday, December 20, 2014

Christmas Cousins


We gathered for our annual Girls' Cousins Christmas Celebration this weekend.  It was nice to meet some extended family who came from out of the area, while some other cousins were missed.  I get it though.  It's hard to be everywhere all the time.  Besides church, this was all we had on the calendar--a girl day and it was such a blessing for my littlest especially.  She had so much fun singing and dancing with her cousins. That's just how my cousin and I used to spend Christmas Eve, so funny to watch our girls now!
Lene Bean is in the in-between years.  She's too old for the littles play, but not old enough for the adults. She found a good book and read a little bit and enjoyed playing for me in the gift exchange part.



Taking our annual picture was fun. Some of us threw on some festive hats and were messing around taking selfies.  Some others were not being a part of that nonsense.  It was funny! And we wore ugly sweaters again--well, some of us did anyways.  I wore mom's from last year because she had too much fun making a new one.



Sis in loves
At the end of the day, it was nice to squeeze in some girl time because we don't get together nearly enough any more.  I'm so thankful for our monthly family dinners for the simple fact that I get to check in with my brothers and sister and spend some time with my nephews.  If we don't intentionally plan for it, it doesn't happen.  And sometimes priorities are just different for different people.  I'm working on accepting people I love for that very reason and letting go of the bitterness pill I sometimes allow myself to swallow when they choose not to show up.  I get things happen, kids get sick, life happens. . .but it's hard when none of the above are reasons--All I can control are my actions and showing our children the importance of showing up and being able to count on the people we are growing together in this household.  That's all I can do.

For now, this weekend was an enjoyable celebration of girl cousins, catching up on visits that were long over due.  Christmas blessings at their finest.

Friday, August 29, 2014

Week Two Wrap Up

I can not believe that today marks the second full week of school,  I'm still looking for that perfect balance, that sane schedule, that routine that we are all used to.  Needless to say, we don't have it.  All of us are still looking.  I'm trying to remember to give them grace in the process.  There is so much to keep track of: cross country, early release days, tumble bears, dance, volleyball. . .and that is pretty much only one activity per child.  It will get easier.  I will give myself grace in the process as well.

I am extremely thankful for God moments in the eye of the stormy, chaotic, craziness that has become my weekday life: for people and situations that have allowed me to get away, if only for an hour to refresh me and fill up my reserves.  Sometimes I feel like an observer of the flurry of activity that is around me.  Tracking grades, library book due dates, Nessa's lessons, and three meals a day takes a toll on a person.  And it's only week two...only week two...only week two. . .
Monkeying around is one way to combat crazy.  Janessa usually has the right idea.  Except when her hand hurts, 5 minutes into school time.  Sigh.  So is the life of a homeschooler, I guess.  Lots of patience required from mom.  And coffee.  Four o'clock coffee,  as a matter of fact, has become a matter of life and death.
And then there's this little who isn't so little any more.  I have to look for ways to squeeze one on one time with her because quality time is her love language.  So lately it has been a walk along the big block, just to talk so I can focus on her and what is on her heart versus the dishes, the need to sweep the floor again, and the questions that keep arising from the homework associated with common core.  There is just SO MUCH TO DO and I want to do it well.  So, I wake up every day and fill up my coffee cup and open my bible just hoping it will keep me grounded throughout the complications and craziness of the day!
And as if I didn't have enough on my plate to keep me busy. . .I just happened to buy a box of Hatch Chilis from New Mexico.  A box.  Sprouts roasted them for me but a woman I was talking to in line said I should peel them before I put them in the freezer.  Peel.  A few hours later with the help of my mom, I have enough chilis to last me a while at least.  There is always a positive if I look for it!  But a box of chilis?  I didn't really realize what I was getting myself into.  Thank goodness mom came by to help!
 What better thing to do on a school night than go ride horses?  The boy we carpool with has a neighbor with horses and he knows how much Lene loves them, so he arranged a horse riding session for us.  Nessa, who has only ridden a pony was not too keen on the idea of riding big, beautiful Amigo, but with some coaxing from Dustin she went.  Twice!  She even starting calling out, "Giddy-up!" and "Yee-Haw!"
Horses and chickens.  Such a fun field trip for us homeschoolers!

Horses is her thing!  She just adores them, which cracks me up a little since sometimes she is such my chicken little! She rode around very comfortable, asking all sorts of questions and so happy to be out at the barn.
And since I'm all about hands on learning--and modeling for my children.  I rode too,  Amigo was really quite big with an interesting gait because of the Tennessee horse that he is.  I just loved his markings!
And I think I just love this picture of the three girls.  Lene Bean got both the girls ready: denim, boots, and pony tails!  I thought they looked so cute I just needed a picture of us.  The only boots I own are Uggs, which wasn't happening in the ninety degree weather, but I just love their poses and that they are mine.  Love that we had some quality girl time locally, doing something Lene loved!

And I am so happy to enjoy a three day weekend at home together.  All of us!